Vows by Vanessa

I’m Vanessa, a multi award-winning officiant based in Virginia. I’m honored to serve couples from all walks of life with heartfelt, personalized ceremonies. With nearly 20 years of experience and a background in interfaith studies, I specialize in creating meaningful moments that reflect your unique love story, culture and traditions. Whether you’re planning an elopement in the Blue Ridge Mountains, a micro wedding at a local vineyard or a classic ceremony surrounded by family and friends, I’m here to guide you every step of the way. From custom vow coaching to unity rituals, I offer a range of services designed to bring your vision to life!

As a modern, non-pastoral officiant, I celebrate all love… LGBTQ+, multicultural, interfaith, and beyond. I create inclusive, personalized ceremonies that reflect you, not a template. I stay current with trends and love blending modern rituals with meaningful traditions, from private vow exchanges to cultural elements. Whether you’re eloping or hosting a big celebration, I’ll help craft a ceremony that’s fresh, heartfelt, and true to your story.

In three words: Efficient, Fun, Innovative