The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Cary, NC

The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Cary, NC

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4 Wedding Venues in Cary, NC

Historic estates, mansions
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The Upchurch 

5.0

Cary, NC
  • Up to 225 guests
  • Select services
  • Starts at $5,500

Combining historic charm with modern amenities, The Upchurch offers a versatile space for weddings. The venue features elegant interiors and beautiful outdoor spaces, providing a sophisticated backdrop for any celebration. Personalized service ensures a unique and unforgettable wedding.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • No in-house catering options
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Best for events with big guest lists
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From the moment we booked our wedding at The Upchurch, Cara and Hannah were incredibly helpful, thorough, caring, supportive, and excited to work with us. They have a wealth of experience hosting weddings and truly went above and beyond to make our day special. The Upchurch has a gorgeous, large space with so many beautiful backdrop options, and the team's attention to detail was impeccable. They helped us find the perfect vendors and took all of our thoughts and ideas to the next level. Very much recommend going with their in-house planning team, as Melanie was so accommodating, helpful, and kind! The venue itself was already beautiful, but the Upchurch team made it feel truly magical. We are so grateful for their expertise and the way they prioritized making our wedding day exactly what we dreamed of!
Olivia W., 3 months ago
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The Oaks at Salem 

5.0

Apex, NC
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor

The Oaks at Salem has everything you are looking for! As the premier venue for weddings, receptions, rehearsal dinners, and other Triangle functions, the property provides numerous options for both outdoor and indoor entertaining! ​ Combining centuries-old charm with the best of modern conveniences, the setting is designed to capitalize on the views from every vantage point. Situated on over eleven pastoral acres with mature hardwoods and beautiful landscaping, The Oaks at Salem provides a plethora of photo opportunities beyond your imagination. The main level of the house offers a cozy fireplace and over one thousand square feet of veranda overlooking our ceremony wall, serene, one-acre pond, and newly acquired rustic barn.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Promotes a party atmosphere
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Handles all cleanup logistics

Venue considerations

  • No venue-provided food services
  • No free parking
  • Best for events with big guest lists
The Oaks was everything I dreamed of and provided the absolute best back drop for our pictures. The house is gorgeous and plenty spacious! We are thrilled that’s where we got to say and celebrate our I Do’s!
Stephanie K., a year ago
Jiddi Space & Courtyard 

5.0

Raleigh, NC
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $3,500

The Jiddi Space & Courtyard, part of Raleigh's Helig-Levine Complex, comprises four historic buildings dating back to the late 1800s. Originally a furniture and dry goods store, the space evolved into a stockroom for Heilig-Levine Furniture Store. Restored by Empire Properties in 2005, it now serves as an event venue managed by neighboring restaurants Sitti and Gravy. Hosting parties, weddings, and events, it retains its historic charm with market lights and a rich heritage spanning nearly 150 years.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Combines timeless elegance with history
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Additional event staff required
  • No on-site guest accommodations
Jiddi Space & Courtyard was an excellent choice for our wedding reception. Their communication throughout the planning process was responsive, pleasant, and professional. The ambiance of their venue was perfect for our wedding, with a beautiful space that allowed for a wonderful evening of celebration and dancing with our family and friends. The Jiddi team went above and beyond to make our special day truly magical, from the beginning of the planning stages to the end of the evening. The food was also delicious, and we would highly recommend Jiddi Space & Courtyard to others looking for a special event venue.
Pattie B., 10 months ago
The Grove at City Market 

5.0

Raleigh, NC
  • Up to 110 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

The Grove at City Market is an intimate wedding venue located in Raleigh, NC. This unique venue offers a charming atmosphere with rustic decor and contemporary elements throughout. The Grove at City Market offers a range of chic indoor and outdoor spots for you to host your ceremony, including a brick garden patio area in the heart of City Market's cobblestone streets and a historic sheltered space featuring an Edison bulb chandelier. They offer cocktail hour bars complete with flaming fire pits and comfortable lounge areas where you can host a casual reception with your friends and family. The Grove at City Market can cater to a range of events, such as engagement parties, rehearsal dinners, elopements, weddings, and more. They offer a selection of comprehensive packages, including all the services you may need to pull off your dream event, from delectable catering and refreshing beverages to staffing and rentals.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Offers a sense of luxury
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
  • On-site parking not available
  • Not wheelchair accessible
We work with the Market Hall team often as planners and we always have a great experience! The staff are so knowledgeable on all things catering, weddings, and events and we know our clients are in great hands if they book The Grove or Market Hall. We love that The Grove has a unique look and the space is so modern! If you are looking for a chic, modern, industrial space with amazing food then The Grove is for you!
Something Fabulous, 3 years ago

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About wedding venues in Cary, NC

Why is Cary Perfect for Your Wedding Day?

Cary boasts an impressive variety of wedding venues from historic mansions like The Matthews House to modern spaces like Chatham Station. Its central location in North Carolina's Triangle region gives your guests easy access to Raleigh-Durham International Airport. You'll appreciate the financial advantage too; venues here typically account for just 16% of your total wedding budget compared to the national average of 25%. November has emerged as the most popular month for venue inquiries and most couples book their dream location about 14 months before the big day.

What Types of Wedding Venues Can You Find in Cary?

Cary's venue selection offers something special for every couple's vision. The Matthews House features a stunning Grand Ballroom complemented by manicured gardens and a spacious terrace, plus you'll get concierge service and an onsite wedding coordinator to help with planning. Chatham Station gives you 4,500 square feet of open space filled with natural light in historic downtown; perfect for celebrations up to 200 guests. If luxury is what you're after, The Umstead Hotel and Spa delivers with art-filled interiors and beautiful lakeside terraces set against wooded grounds. Prestonwood Country Club offers elegant ballrooms with sweeping golf course views while The Mayton combines 44 comfortable guestrooms with direct terrace access to Downtown Cary Park.

How Much Do Cary Wedding Venues Cost?

Venues in Cary cost about $6,805 on average which represents roughly 16% of your total wedding expenses. You'll find this quite reasonable compared to the national benchmark of $6,500-$12,000 that typically eats up 25% of total wedding costs. Total wedding budgets in Cary by guest count:

  • 50 guests: $18,931
  • 100 guests: $31,411
  • 150 guests: $43,146
  • 200 guests: $53,638
  • 250 guests: $64,131
  • 300 guests: $74,623

Which Wedding Services in Cary Cost the Most?

ServiceAverage CostPercentage of Total Budget
Venue$6,80516%
Catering$5,44413%
Florists$5,32412%
Bar Services$4,35510%
Photographers$4,0959%
Planners$3,8639%
Videographers$3,6188%
Bands/DJs$1,3343%
Cakes/Desserts$9212%
Hair & Makeup$6101%

When Should You Book Your Cary Wedding Venue?

Most couples in Cary secure their venues about 14 months (403 days) before their wedding date. November tops the charts as the most popular month for venue inquiries. If you're dreaming of a spring or fall wedding; especially a Saturday celebration at one of the more sought-after venues; you'll want to book early. These prime dates fill up quickly so getting ahead of the game will give you more options to choose from.

Where Can You Find Fully Accessible Wedding Venues in Cary?

The Matthews House offers excellent wheelchair accessibility with their attentive concierge service ready to accommodate various needs. You'll find Chatham Station particularly welcoming with its open 4,500-square-foot floor plan designed for easy navigation throughout its historic downtown location. The Mayton connects you directly to Downtown Cary Park through terrace access and features comprehensive amenities that meet accessibility standards so all your guests can fully participate in your celebration.

Which Cary Venues Offer Outstanding Food Quality?

The Umstead Hotel & Spa serves up sophisticated gourmet catering that's earned recognition for culinary excellence; your foodie guests will be impressed. The Palm Venue & Catering brings over 20 years of restaurant experience to their freshly renovated 2023 space with menus you can customize to your taste. Prestonwood Country Club delivers upscale dining with the bonus of championship golf course views that create a memorable backdrop for your reception meal.

How Can Remote Guests Participate in Cary Weddings?

The Matthews House excels at including remote participants thanks to their dedicated onsite coordinator who can help you create interactive options beyond basic streaming. You'll appreciate their professional event direction to facilitate engaging experiences for virtual guests throughout their versatile spaces. This means your loved ones who can't attend in person can still feel connected to your special day regardless of where they're located.

Why is Cary Perfect for Your Wedding Day?

Cary boasts an impressive variety of wedding venues from historic mansions like The Matthews House to modern spaces like Chatham Station. Its central location in North Carolina's Triangle region gives your guests easy access to Raleigh-Durham International Airport. You'll appreciate the financial advantage too; venues here typically account for just 16% of your total wedding budget compared to the national average of 25%. November has emerged as the most popular month for venue inquiries and most couples book their dream location about 14 months before the big day.

What Types of Wedding Venues Can You Find in Cary?

Cary's venue selection offers something special for every couple's vision. The Matthews House features a stunning Grand Ballroom complemented by manicured gardens and a spacious terrace, plus you'll get concierge service and an onsite wedding coordinator to help with planning. Chatham Station gives you 4,500 square feet of open space filled with natural light in historic downtown; perfect for celebrations up to 200 guests. If luxury is what you're after, The Umstead Hotel and Spa delivers with art-filled interiors and beautiful lakeside terraces set against wooded grounds. Prestonwood Country Club offers elegant ballrooms with sweeping golf course views while The Mayton combines 44 comfortable guestrooms with direct terrace access to Downtown Cary Park.

How Much Do Cary Wedding Venues Cost?

Venues in Cary cost about $6,805 on average which represents roughly 16% of your total wedding expenses. You'll find this quite reasonable compared to the national benchmark of $6,500-$12,000 that typically eats up 25% of total wedding costs. Total wedding budgets in Cary by guest count:

  • 50 guests: $18,931
  • 100 guests: $31,411
  • 150 guests: $43,146
  • 200 guests: $53,638
  • 250 guests: $64,131
  • 300 guests: $74,623

Which Wedding Services in Cary Cost the Most?

ServiceAverage CostPercentage of Total Budget
Venue$6,80516%
Catering$5,44413%
Florists$5,32412%
Bar Services$4,35510%
Photographers$4,0959%
Planners$3,8639%
Videographers$3,6188%
Bands/DJs$1,3343%
Cakes/Desserts$9212%
Hair & Makeup$6101%

When Should You Book Your Cary Wedding Venue?

Most couples in Cary secure their venues about 14 months (403 days) before their wedding date. November tops the charts as the most popular month for venue inquiries. If you're dreaming of a spring or fall wedding; especially a Saturday celebration at one of the more sought-after venues; you'll want to book early. These prime dates fill up quickly so getting ahead of the game will give you more options to choose from.

Where Can You Find Fully Accessible Wedding Venues in Cary?

The Matthews House offers excellent wheelchair accessibility with their attentive concierge service ready to accommodate various needs. You'll find Chatham Station particularly welcoming with its open 4,500-square-foot floor plan designed for easy navigation throughout its historic downtown location. The Mayton connects you directly to Downtown Cary Park through terrace access and features comprehensive amenities that meet accessibility standards so all your guests can fully participate in your celebration.

Which Cary Venues Offer Outstanding Food Quality?

The Umstead Hotel & Spa serves up sophisticated gourmet catering that's earned recognition for culinary excellence; your foodie guests will be impressed. The Palm Venue & Catering brings over 20 years of restaurant experience to their freshly renovated 2023 space with menus you can customize to your taste. Prestonwood Country Club delivers upscale dining with the bonus of championship golf course views that create a memorable backdrop for your reception meal.

How Can Remote Guests Participate in Cary Weddings?

The Matthews House excels at including remote participants thanks to their dedicated onsite coordinator who can help you create interactive options beyond basic streaming. You'll appreciate their professional event direction to facilitate engaging experiences for virtual guests throughout their versatile spaces. This means your loved ones who can't attend in person can still feel connected to your special day regardless of where they're located.

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